Alright this is my first blog..thanks to a very dear friend..who is pushing me from quiet since long.she has asked me to write something about relationships and how it affects one's personal life.well of course it does.that's the reason why i m writing this thing, coz i don't wanna make a mess of this subject with her i.e. relationship. ;) if you really wanna hear about it,first thing you probably wanna know is what is my definition of relationship and how it affects humanity in general and all that crap but i don't feel like going into it.somehow someway its hard to keep a striking balance between two people's mind. and the closer one gets into maintaining this balance,the better relationship is sustained between the two.
personally it has been a mystery to me. it really is if you ask me. you know sometimes when we meet some people and think this is gonna last forever and ever.at that very moment something goes wrong and all that vanishes in thin air. and sometimes two people with no mutual understanding at all just cling towards each other and go on for a long long time. this has been a mysterious part. i mean we really cant predict if two people are really made for each other or not.
frankly speaking i've not been very good at maintaining relationships with people no matter if its a guy or a girl. i mean i just dont know what to do and what not to do with some people. or maybe i m too conceited to think about that. there is one thing i'd like to write though, even though you are too good and grateful towards someone,its a rarity if that person retorts u back with the same amount of gratitude when you ask for some favor later on. there is one line from one of my favorite author, mario puzo,i'd like to point out it seems apt here. Time erodes gratitude faster than it does beauty.people say external beauty is ephemeral and has a very short life but i say gratitude lives shortest. people tend to forget all of it as quickly as an amnesiac. i can at least tell you,i m not one of those people. on the other hand i can even say i've had people treating me this way. but you know the funny part. i take it all lightly and still joke around but somewhere down the line it kills me when i face it.
anyways i think i'll stop now.
thanks for pushing me..;)
hope you liked it.
!~AmIsH~!
